I’ve been seeing for several weeks girls upload videos on TikTok getting ready for weddings in sequin dresses. And I find it very interesting because, historically, the debate about whether it is appropriate to wear them as guests keeps resurfacing every so often. The answer in 2026 is a bit more complex. Sequin wear currently sits between two cultural movements. On one hand, fashion is reclaiming shine and excess, while the wedding industry continues to maintain a fairly traditional hierarchy (even though some say that “weddings today are modern”).
Traditionally, the context of sequins was associated with New Year’s Eve, nightclubs, or evening dresses; but just this summer designers like Stella McCartney, Corrugès or Etro have included them in their dresses and have moved from tones like black or metallics to others that are much more vibrant and lively. The goal? To include them in our day-to-day looks. It has also happened with smaller brands, such as Handover. And although for the guest code it may seem too much, in 2026, for many visionaries, it’s just pure material. That is what has changed the paradigm and that is what is really interesting.
What it means to wear sequins
Sequins have always been linked to visibility and the idea of drawing attention. Their raison d’être is, in a sense, to be seen, and, in fact, the modern sequin was born to be culturally associated with a woman who dances, moves and attracts gazes. The flapper, sexual freedom or Rabanne’s Unwearable Dresses are good examples. However, in weddings, the protocols set roles, and anything that could eclipse the bride is eliminated. Nobody wears white and this appliqué, hierarchically, is not viewed positively because, if twenty people are wearing matte fabric, the eye will be drawn to the one who reflects light.
However, today, eclipsing the bride and stealing the spotlight is much more difficult to define, and TikTok has a lot to do with this. Previously a guest would dress solely to attend a wedding; now she also dresses to produce an image of herself where there is a GRWM, a video, makeup, photos with friends, an Instagram carousel… And that makes the codes clash.
So, sequins yes or no?
Depends. Of course there are guests who do not post photos of every wedding they attend and brides who will always tell you “wear whatever you want, I don’t mind.” But technology is also fading from these environments and more and more couples are asking that there be no phones at the reception. I think this is a reflection of digital representation.
Personally, I am quite a fan of the protocol, but banning them seems too drastic. The problem is not them per se, but the overall look. There are sequin dresses that are very simple and elegant that turn out discreet and, with the right accessories, create an ideal guest look. Another thing entirely is that you look like a Freixenet bubble. Therefore, my advice will always be the same when in doubt: ask the bride. It’s her day.
Discreet sequin dresses
Dress by Mango, 350 euros.
Mango dress, 350 euros. It is a clear example of a well-balanced dress. With discreet accessories, a clean look and natural makeup, the look is top-notch and does not eclipse anyone. Additionally, it is a dress that fits like a glove.
Dress by Kayo Paris, 113.95 euros.
Dress by Kayo Paris, 113.95 euros. The craze exploded on TikTok with this dress. It is spectacular, ideal for a gala event, but the color and the shine raised doubts among the guests who are most respectful of the brides.
Dress with sequins by Etro, €4,120.
Etro sequin dress, €4,120. This is a dress to dream about, because for the vast majority it is unattainable, but many influencers have brought it to BBC. It is beautiful, flatters, and has a certain autumnal tint.
